Loving the Alien - Hardcoverby Joann Schauf (Author) Everything was going along well until your child entered adolescence. Now your once compliant child isolates in their room, gives one word answers, and prefers their peers over you. You feel obsolete and your parenting style is ineffective. In Loving the Alien, author JoAnn Schauf, acknowledges this pain and teaches parents leadership skills to lead their children through puberty, their search for identity, and their immature